The #1 Biggest Mistake a Woman Makes when a Man Pulls Away
If you’ve ever had a man pull away from you, disappear, or play “hot and cold” with you, then you know how frustrating this can be.
This is one of the biggest complaints women come to me with.
You want to feel loved and cherished by a man.
You want to feel like you’re so important to him that he never wants to let you go.
You want to be the woman that he wants to be with forever…
But then one day he starts pulling back, goes cold, or disappears altogether.
Leaving you feeling heartbroken, confused, and questioning whether you’ll ever find the love you really want.
When a man pulls away, if you want him to come running back to you and never leave again, you need to avoid the biggest mistake women make that push men even further away…
It’s something I call, a “Connection Barrier.”
It’s like slamming a door in his face.
Most women do this because you want to feel seen, heard, and appreciated but this only tells him that he’s not welcome around you.
Instead, you want him to feel like it was a mistake to pull away and like he can’t wait to have you in his arms again.
I’ll tell you how to do that in just a minute…
But first…
The biggest connection barrier I see women use is this…
1. Trying to “Teach Him a Lesson.”
This looks like yelling at him, cussing him out, or freaking out on him…
Women do this because they are feeling hurt and they aren’t sure how to tell him that so they attack him in this way.
Unfortunately, he won’t get the message.
He’ll only feel like he doesn’t ever want to talk to you again.
When you do this, you’re training him to avoid coming back to you because he’ll experience pain when he does.
Because of this, it’ll take him longer and longer to come back, if he does at all.
Instead, you want him to feel like coming back to you is the best thing he can possibly do.
2. Giving Him the “Silent Treatment.”
This looks like going cold on him, going silent, or ignoring him…
Women do this because they want to give him “a taste of his own medicine.”
So they take revenge on him.
This is fine if you don’t ever want to talk to him again but any emotionally healthy man will take it as a sign that you’re not interested anymore, at best.
If you’re trying to send him a message that you’re feeling taken for granted, he probably won’t receive it this way.
If you want him to know that you feel disrespected like this, you need to set a boundary instead.
And if you do it the right way, it’ll make him appreciate and respect you more.
3. Communicating Neediness.
This usually looks like getting jealous, constantly seeking reassurance that he still likes you or loves you, baiting him for compliments, asking him if he’s going to leave you, etc.
You may get a small dose of relief if he gives you what you want but he’ll start to value and appreciate you less because of it.
Why?
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Because it tells him that you don’t value yourself enough to believe that you deserve to have a great man and a great relationship.
And most men will start to lose interest and slip away after you do this, especially if you continue to do it over time.
There’s a 5 word phrase that women use that will destroy a man’s love for you and drive him out of your life forever.
We’ll talk about that in just a minute…
Most women do this because they’re afraid of losing a guy.
They don’t realize that this is what will push him away even further.
Instead, you need to believe in your own value so much that you confidently know that you deserve a great man AND a great relationship.
Here’s how you do that…
The Secret to Making Him Want to Come Back And Never Leave Again
If you want a man to come back to you and never leave again, you need to use something that I call…
This formula will…
Raise your valuein men’s eyes…
Connect with his heart so that he falls in love andwants to be with you forever...
Protects you from men trying to take advantage of you…
Makes whatever man you’re with afraid to lose you…
Gives you power and choicein your dating life so that you can end up with a great guy who cherishes the ground you walk on…
The Forever Woman Formula has three parts to it…
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There’s something I call, “The Law of Belief Transference.”
What it states is that whoever has a stronger belief about something will transfer that belief to the other person.
So if you believe that you’re not valuable, a man will ultimately start believing it as well, even if he WANTS to believe you’re valuable.
Why? Because it comes across in your actions, your words, and your overall communication.
You’ll start acting needy, wondering when he’ll leave you, questioning whether he really loves you or not.
You can fake believing it for a while through tricks and manipulation.
But eventually your truth will be communicated and he’ll start to lose interest, pull away, and disappear forever.
Instead, you need to believe that you’re worthy of a great manand a great relationship at your core.
There’s a very specific way to do this that I’ll talk about in just in a minute.
2. Position Yourself in Value
If you want a man to NEVER want to pull away again, there’s one very simple thing that you will want to do…
You need to make him feel scared of losing you.
How do you do this?
You need to put yourself in a position where he feels and knows in his core that he could lose youif he doesn’t play his cards right.
If you do this the right way, he’ll be pursuing YOU for the kind of relationship that YOU want to have with him.
3. Communicate Your Value
This is the most common thing women come to me to find out…
They want to know, “What should I say to him?”
And this is VERY important.
Not only do you want to say something to him that makes him FEEL like it was a mistake to pull away in the first place…
You also want tocommunicate the right thingsWHEN HE’S WITH YOU.
If a man has already pulled away, I have a 4 word text message that is designed to get his attention, make him realize he was wrong for pulling away, and get him talking to you again.
We’ll get to that in just a minute…
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Ultimately, you want him to value you, appreciate you, and cherish every moment he’s around you.
You want him to fall in love with you, see you for the amazing woman you are, and feel like he wants to move mountains and travel to the ends of the earth to be with you.
