ATTRACT, Don’t Chase. Here’s How….

ATTRACT, Don’t Chase. Here’s How..

In my extensive experience coaching countless women globally, I’ve uncovered a critical relationship insight: chasing a man, especially when he’s distancing himself, is rarely ever beneficial. This might seem counterintuitive, especially when fear of loss kicks in, but there’s a solid reason behind this advice.

Let’s delve into it…

Persistently pursuing him can often blind you to significant red flags that are crucial to recognize in any healthy relationship.

I’ve identified four major red flags that often go unnoticed when you’re in the pursuit mode.

These red flags are critical, and understanding them can change the way you handle such situations.

Stay with me, as we’re about to explore these crucial warning signs in detail…

1. Why Chasing Him Makes Him Less Interested

Imagine this: a girl keeps chasing a guy, but he just relaxes and enjoys it.

He might not really like her much, but he’s okay with getting attention without trying.

You can usually tell if a guy is losing interest by his small actions, or the things he doesn’t do.

So, don’t be the one always running after him. It’s better if he’s also trying to be with you.

If you stop chasing and he starts acting strange or backs away, you’ll see it more clearly.

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2. He Might Not Be Into You

t’s like the first point. If you’re always the one chasing him, you might not realize if he wasn’t really interested all along.

This can be tough. You end up really liking him, but maybe he didn’t feel the same from the start.

I knew someone who spent 12 years with a guy who wasn’t all in. She thought they’d get married, but he wasn’t serious from day one.

She didn’t see it because she was putting in all the effort, while he just went along with it.

You don’t want to be in that spot.

If you step back and let him come to you, you’ll see clearly through his actions if he’s truly interested.

Remember this: the effort a guy puts into being with you says a lot more than the effort you put into him. That shows how much he really cares and what you mean to him.

And that’s really important.

3. He May Not Be Your Ideal Match

Chasing a guy can sometimes cloud your judgment. You might be so intent on making the relationship work that you miss the signs he’s not the one for you.

Being caught up in the chase, you might overlook crucial differences. Maybe your goals don’t align – perhaps he’s not looking for something serious, or your future plans like having kids don’t match, or maybe your core values are different.

These are significant deal breakers, but they can be easily missed if you’re too focused on pursuing someone who isn’t quite the right match.

It’s not worth spending weeks, months, or years in a relationship that doesn’t allow both of you to grow. It often leads to heartache and the feeling of lost time.

4. Relationship Progress: It Takes Two

When you find yourself single-handedly striving to improve the relationship, it often leads to a lopsided dynamic. Many guys might just take a backseat and let you handle it all.

This imbalance is problematic. It places the entire burden of the relationship’s health on your shoulders, which isn’t fair or sustainable.

In a scenario where you’re doing all the work, there’s a risk that he becomes complacent, potentially not valuing or treating you as you truly deserve.

Understand this: Men often deeply appreciate and value the relationships they have to invest effort in.

If you’re the only one making all the efforts, he may not feel as compelled to invest in the relationship.

You deserve someone who sees your worth and actively contributes to your happiness.

Encourage a relationship where both partners contribute equally. You’re entitled to a loving, balanced partnership where your efforts are matched and appreciated.

Settle for nothing less than a relationship that’s equally amazing for both of you.

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